Thank you for your interest in the topic tonight. Here are the two books I used and recommend:
The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying by Sogyal Rinpoche p. 16
Small Boat, Great Mountain by Amaro Bhikkhu, p. 113-114 and 116. (This book is only available through Abhayagiri Monastery: http://www.abhayagiri.org/books/small-boat-great-mountain)
If the link does not work, go to: www.abhayagiri.org and click "menu" then "books" and search for the title (they have lots of books). You can then download it as a .pdf file or write them to have them send you a copy.
I forgot to announce tonight that I'll be leading a daylong retreat at East Bay Meditation Center on Sunday, June 23rd, with Charlie Johnson. The topic is Being Free and the retreat is for people with chronic illness, issues around aging, or disability. We will be using mindfulness, shared stories, lovingkindness and joy to explore and work with whatever inhibits our freedom. For more information or to register, go to www.eastbaymeditation.org.